LINDA IKEJI

Entertainment, Gossip, NEWS, Uncategorized

LIB

 

Linda Ikeji’s blog is part of the morning routine for some people. Wake up, thank God, pee, brush teeth, grab phone check Linda Ikeji’s blog. In that order! So when people were doing their normal routine and they saw a page that said blog not found, many people were puzzled as to why and what happened.

There has been a beef between Linda Ikeji and a guy named Aye Dee. I am going to post Linda’s new blog site if you don’t already know. I just have a few comments and questions. First of all reading that post Linda wrote makes you really question friends. I knew someone who I felt betrayed me as a friend too and its never a good feeling, when someone you thought was your friend goes behind your back and trashes you to others and apparently thats what this guy did to Linda.

Crazy McCrazy Crazy McCrazy

He turned people against her and destroyed her by destroying her business. THATS FOUL furthermore it seemed like he did that just so he can be a part of her life again. Reading the messages, he seemed so creepy, I mean honestly if you read the messages this guy isn’t well! He seems to have some mental issues or something! I just kept shaking my head as I was reading, I mean I could almost hear how desperate he was to be included in her come back.

This guy has time, money, and knowledge to bring her down and thats exactly what he did. My question is Linda has been in the game for eight years. How was this guy able to bring her down so easily?! I started to think maybe this was a stunt on her part and I still kind of do, because I don’t see her being this naive to not have bought other domains in her name at the start of her fame. Out of the eight years she has been HOT for at least five years. By year two I would think that she would have thought to buy other domains for her name. Aye Dee was talking about squatters, I am sure it is him and he wants her to pay him. This whole thing is a mess. Its super scary to think that someone she considered a friend would go through this much to bring her down.

I have had trust issues with people and I still try to see the good in everyone no matter how ugly they make themselves out to be, but stories like this make you not want to be close to anyone because clearly people are crazy. You never know when you will rub someone the wrong way and what they will do to make sure you feel what they felt even if you didn’t know you were causing them pain. I guess the best thing you can learn from this story is CYA if you don’t know what that means google it! lol

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Oh and its kind of messed up this Aye Dee dude is lunatic bc he is actually kinda cute, but when he turned into crazy internet guy it killed that sooooo…..

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Don’t Be Surprised If She Ask Where The Cash At

Entertainment, Gossip, Relationship

 

A few weeks ago I posted a video of a lady begging guys not to come her way if they are broke. It was actually kind of funny, but some of the things she said disturbed me a bit. I didn’t give my thoughts on my page but today I want to share how she (the lady in the video) was right and wrong.

In the video the woman explained that if you approach a woman and she looks good you should help maintain that look especially if she is doing things a woman should do for a man. I assume she meant smashing ect but mainly smashing and less of the ect. To a certain degree I agree with her, yes I do! Fellas if you are attracted to a woman who looks like a million bucks more than likely she probably doesn’t have anything to her name and is looking for someone to help maintain that look. So if you want to hit that be ready to come out of pocket simple. Trust me she will expect it. If you don’t want to deal with it then don’t go her way simple.

How can you tell a woman like this, she usually has labels warring all over the place from head to toe, long long weave, is out all the time on the scene, make up is usually very heavy, only hangs around big rollers even though she can barely pay her phone bill, oh and her red bottoms cost more than her cash car she bought almost 6 years ago, and how can I forget if her face says half cast but her hands looks like her people came from Ghana (no offense to my Ghanaian beauties, black is beautiful). Gold digging chicks love to bleach. The girl in the video was sitting on the floor in a room that appeared to be small considering the only background scene she could pick was that next to a shoe rack and some other cluttered mess. Maybe her mattress was on the floor too. She clearly has nothing going on besides trying to bed men for material things.

Her mentality on relationships was messed up as well. She said something along the lines of “When the relationship is over you will talk bad about me anyway” that tells me she doesn’t care to have a long lasting relationship. She is already anticipating the relationships demise. She wants to get what she can from the guy and then move on to the next.

If you are with a woman and when you met her she had herself packaged well, meaning she gets her hair done, lashes, makeup, nails, gym membership, you get it. As a man that is with her you should want to do those things bc you love and value her. Not because she warms your bed at night and cooks you food. A dog can lay next to you and you can always get some aunty to cook you your favorite stew without the headache of a woman.  There needs to be more than sex and food although some may say that is the easiest way to a man’s heart.

Being an independent woman doesn’t mean we don’t want a man to do for us, that just means we don’t NEED a man to do for us. This chick in the video appears she needs a man to do for her its a very clear and distinct difference.  I guess what you can take away from this post is fellas if you are going after a woman who appears to be high maintenance then my broda be ready to open your wallets simple! Also on the same note women like to be pampered and no matter how independent she is its nice to have a guy be thoughtful enough to say hey you are getting your hair done? Don’t worry I got you or oh you are going shopping come lets use my car and my credit card. Do it bc you care about her not bc you are sleeping with her.  Last thing to take away is watch out for women with two tone bodies they are sure to chop all your money on bleaching cream to become one tone lol.

 

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LUX MONROE *Chic Boutique*

Entertainment, Fashion, NEWS

 

 

Bye no means am I a shopper but when I find a good thing I love to share it! I follow a boutique called Lux Monroe on instagram and noticed this wasn’t just an online shop but an actual store. I love to support local businesses so I decided to drop in and started talking to a young lady there only to find out she was the owner. She was pleasant and you can tell she really has a passion for her work.

Love this

Laci Jackson opened up LUX MONROE on W. Alabama in the Galleria area after doing trunk shows and different events for about three years “it was a God thing I was driving, and I made the decision that I wanted to go out and find a location. I had a budget of what I could afford and I don’t even know why I was in the Galleria area, but I got out of my car and just started walking and found something great” said Jackson.

 

As we continued our conversation I noticed that the clothes and pieces were bold (which I like) Jackson stated “clothing has been the latest edition to my business but it has been the best part, my clothing is very different nothing you can find in the mall. I have statement pieces; bold fashion that I would say is for divas!!!” Lux Monroe’s clothing is sexy, bold, and fun perfect for a night out on the town and perfect for all the divas out there!

Every girl needs a good Romper

Every girl needs a good Romper

Black and White Romper

I love supporting local businesses but more importantly I like to support other women, more important than supporting women, I like to support YOUNG women! Laci is 23 years old and she is already making moves to build an empire. Ladies and gents reading this (men by for your wives, girlfriends ect) take time follow @luxlaci on Instagram and support!

Meet Laci Jackson founder of Lux Monroe

 

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The Magical O

Entertainment, NEWS, Relationship


black love

 

An orgasm for most women is a myth. Yes the magical O. Some women will go their whole marriage and never experience an orgasm. Many women don’t even experience a vaginal orgasm until their 30’s. Not only are we complicated emotionally but physically too. If a man can give a woman a proper orgasm consistently it would be hard for her to leave.

Women are more than physical, we require emotional attention as well. What you do 24 hours in advance to you having sexual intercourse with your woman really matters.  Some women are simple so showering her with sweet text messages throughout the day, or putting a love note in her purse unexpectedly will get her juices flowing long before you even think of getting in the bed for the night. If the woman is a shopper surprise her with her with a purse, hell even if she isn’t a shopper a nice hand bag is never a bad idea. If you live together have her daily chores done such as dishes, clean the living area, do the laundry ect you get the idea. Sweet nothings really help you in the sense of getting sex on a regular basis and it helps her bc she is more sexually excited to have sex with you. This is how you get one step closer to giving her the big O.

Statistically 80% of women have never had an orgasm. No fellas it’s not that these women have not met the right man, it’s just some women take a little more TLC to get there if you know what I mean. You have to be willing to put in the work. In order to give a woman a vaginal orgasm you have to know what you are looking for. Using your index or middle finger enter the woman’s vaginal area and about 2/3’s in you should feel a kind of rough spongy area; this area is called the “G-spot”. At this point you want to take time and listen to your lady, if she is feeling right she will let you know through her movements and sounds if it’s not feeling right well…. you will know that too! Also by feeling around with your finger you will have an idea of the area you need to target when having intercourse. The key thing is to listen to your woman’s body, that will tell you if what you are doing is correct.

 

Most people are familiar with the clitoral orgasm; typically women who cannot get a vaginal orgasm are very familiar with a clitoral orgasm.  The major difference between the vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm is the location, so fellas if at first you don’t succeed try again but with a different method! The clitoris is very sensitive so be gentile with it. If you are reading this chances are you are not in high school any more so moving the finger back and forth over the clitoris in a fast motion will not cut it. You can massage it first with your hand, maybe use a vibrating toy to stimulate sensation, but the best and most selfless thing to do is to stimulate her orally. If you are going to take that step and go there make sure you have done your research. There is nothing worse than a guy ACTING like he knows what he is doing. She will tell you what to do if for whatever reason you didn’t get around to researching things and also listen to her body.

So guys what have we learned today? We learned that women are much more likely to have sex with you when she sees you when you actually show some effort, and the effort doesn’t always have to be major, but you can never go wrong with a nice hand bag. You also learned how to find the G- spot and that oral stimulation on the clitoris is awesome as long as you do it right! Take this info and go make some lovely lady happy!

10 Guys You Should Run From

Entertainment, Relationship

10. Mr. No Linens

This guy has no shame and that should worry you. He has no shame because as a grown man he actually invited you to his home in his room (if you guys are going there) and he has no sheets on his bed. Just a mattress with a comforter on it. Ladies don’t gasp its true these type of men exist in the world. If you go to a man’s house and you notice he has no sheets on his bed RUN because he gives no f***s. A man that gives no F***s has nothing to lose!

9. Mr. Glory Days

This guy can’t seem to get over things that happened to him that he feels were great in his younger days. He is now 35 and still reminiscing about when he was 25 at the club with 15 of his CLOSEST friends and they popped 25 bottles between the 15 of them. You know because that night was soooo epic! What about the guy who was the high school basketball star and pretty much that was the end of his career but yet he really hasn’t done much since and is still talking about his former balling days 20 years later. Let it go bro, its over!

8. Mr. Daddy Said

Daddy said I should, or my pops told me to, I don’t want to go there because my dad said…. This has to be the most annoying thing in a man. A man that can’t think for himself is such a turn off. There is nothing wrong with consulting one’s parents because clearly your parents have lived much longer than you, but as a woman I want to know that my man has a mind of his own. A woman wants to know he can take wise counsel and still come to his own conclusion at the end of the day based on what people he trust have advised him. Not someone who just follows. A man that does that follows every single little word his daddy says will have his family running your marriage.

7. Mr. Standing on the Wall

This particular guy has no confidence. He doesn’t like it when you talk about other people or guys that are doing well finically because typically they aren’t doing well in that regard. Sometimes they will even try to hold you back so that you are not “above” them. Basically this guy is insecure about his status in life but really isn’t doing much to change it. RUN RUN RUN unless you want to be looking and longing for the finer things in life.

6. Mr. Boaster

There is nothing like a guy who can talk about all the things he and his family has but yet when you two go to eat he is looking for you to pay the bill (Tufiakwa). This guy will go broke trying to buy the latest pair of Vesace shades to keep up with his friends (who probably actually have money). He will be the fun guy, charismatic, maybe even good in bed but other than that not good for much else. I mean come on ladies you don’t want to be like Erika from Love and Hiphop Atl. Her dude couldn’t even make a dramatic exit because he ran out of gas! LOL He was cute though (If that means anything). The Boaster will constantly be broke and when he does get some money in his pocket he will be running to the Gucci store so he can front and stunt in front of his friends. Don’t run, sprint from this guy, simple running may not be enough!

5. Mr. Has it Together but Still 40 and Single

What is wrong with this one? On the outside he has a good job, nice house, drives a nice car travels, handsome, but what is it?! Mr. Has it together does actually have it together, but here is the catch he can’t commit! This guy may have lost his one true love and has never bounced back, so he dates woman after woman because that’s what he feels he should do, but never really loving them or caring for them. Eventually he will find some young chick marry her and just be existing in the same house with her simply because he doesn’t want to be the old man in the club still chasing 25 year olds. Ladies if you are between the age of 22 and 26 this 40+ man may be for you. Don’t expect any real emotion from him, cook, clean, do your wifely duties and this guy will make you the envy of your friends. Run from this guy if you are 28 and over lol you are too OLD.

4. Mr. I am a Business Man

This Business man can never really tell you what his business is. No matter how you ask he finds some way around telling you what he actually does. He typically is involved with fraud, or fraud, and oh fraud. Ladies he may actually have some money for a little while but you have to run from this guy because he may actually scam YOU. He may ask you to deposit a check or accept a wire transfer into your account from his super rich friend that happens to be in the islands on vacation but can’t seem to find any of his close friends to accept it so he will ask a girl he doesn’t know like me….. uh I mean you to accept it (yes this story is all too familiar). Just run you don’t even want to be associated with this kind of “Business man” as a matter of fact if you see that kind of “business man” just act as if you don’t even know him, because if you do people may come for you looking for him and he will be gone!

3. Mr. Better Than Sliced Bread

Sliced bread is good. Its convenient. I can make a sandwich out of sliced bread, I can even toast sliced bread. However I don’t need my man thinking he is better than it. This guy feels like he is God’s gift to women, hell now-a-days to man too! He thinks everyone wants him, he thinks he is the heaven, moon, and stars. A man that worships himself cannot even treat his woman properly because he feels if she is not worshiping the ground he walks on she is actually doing an injustice to herself. This man does not need a woman all he needs is a gym and a mirror; that is the perfect relationship for him!

2. Mr. Party Party Party

We ALLLLL know this guy, we have dated, slept with, wanted to date, wanted to sleep with this guy (not me ooo other people lol). This guy is standing on the couch poppin bottles, knows everyone, hanging tough, drives a nice car, has all the beautiful women around, always posting what party city he is in on IG or FB. The thing about this guy is unless you have crack between your legs and you do juju this guy is not trying to settle down, not for a long while anyway. If you like playing the waiting game, watching him with other chicks until its your turn again then hey this may be the man for you. Until that long awaited time when he comes to his senses you will see him spend 2k in the club in one night and nothing or minimal on you the whole time you were in a “relationship” if that’s what you want to call it. Ladies stay away from this guy he is not serious and probably has slept with your friend, or tried to sleep with your friend and then when that didn’t pan out try to come talk to you lol (trust me this kind of stuff happens).

1. Mr. I Want a Nurse

The highly coveted NURSE!!!! The women that should read this number one probably have no idea who I am or about this blog. She is the village girl roughly 20 or so that will soon be swept off her feet by a 45 year old Uncle that has been driving cab for the past 25 years. This guy will live in the slums to ensure that he saves up the proper amount of money to go back to his country and pick the hottest girl from his village (I said girl bc usually she will be very young about half his age). After he has brought her to America she will be instructed that she must go to school and become a nurse and now she will be the one to take care of the “land pilot” (anyone that has seen the movie “My American Nurse” knows what that is lol) It happens all the time. After the girl has been here for some time she starts to know her rights and these men cannot handle it. Many have resulted to killing their wives who they feel have stepped out of line. Ladies abroad we know about these guys but inform your sisters back home!

 

I want to send a special shout out to @adamilan (Follow her on Instagram)for helping me come up with this topic. Oh yea she make super awesome luxury custom made wigs… you will see mine very soon! Make sure to follow her on IG so you can order your own wig. Stop messing with glue that takes out your edges, do you want to look like Naomi Campbell, get one of her custom made wigs just for you!

 

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#JusticeForJada

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#Jadapose

 

Social media is an active part of everyone’s lives. Even if you boycott against Facebook, you are probably on twitter, if you boycott against twitter you are probably on Instagram, or maybe you are like me and on all three. Social media if used for good can be great, I have seen it unite the world for a cause. I know a guy who used social media to help raise money for his mother to help her get cancer treatments, people from all around the world gave money for that.  Whether he knew them or not everyone can relate to wanting to help their mother. Even though the girls are still lost, the world came together when it was made known that 200 plus school girls had been abducted in Nigeria. Social media is indeed a great thing, but how about when social media goes wrong?

Recently this tag #jadapose was brought to my attention. Apparently this young lady, Jada was at a friend’s house where she was drugged and raped. After the rape they decided to take a picture of her naked unconscious body and post it on social media. You would think at this point kids would be like “this isn’t right” “we should inform someone” ect. Instead the kids, her peers started doing the pose that she did in the picture when she was unconscious and raped calling it the #jadapose. Boys and girls alike participated in this act.  They would lay on the ground and imitate Jada.

Young boys mocking Jadas  rape picture

Young boys mocking Jadas rape picture

 

Jada Pose

 

 

I don’t know in what world imitaiting someone who was just raped is a cool thing. This tells us that something is seriously flawed in our youth. Maybe social media has removed feeling and emotion from certain situations. Our youth are exposed to so many things online that there is no shock value anymore. The shock value has been raised so high that its starting to get to a point where people are just doing stupid things because they want someone to look at them. Did this generation not get enough hugs? How many fights can we see on Facebook and Instagram? We know how its going to end, someone is going to be talking sh!t and the other person will more than likely knock them out, end of story. Yet every other post on my new feed is people fighting. Now I guess fighting has gotten boring and so we are highlighting a young girls rape!

I have never been raped and thank God but I can imagine that it would feel like a serious violation. I feel violated when someone touches me unwarranted not to mention if someone drugged me and had their way with me. For someone at the age of 16 to be going through this so publicly takes courage and strength. This is such a private matter and most rape victims don’t even speak up until years later or not at all. Whether she wanted to or not her face and her body was displayed for all to see, then mocked in a cartoonish fashion for others amusement. I stand with Jada because no one deserves to be treated like that, no one deserves to have a piece of themselves taken away and then exposed for the world to see in such a humiliating manner. As I am writing this I am just getting more upset, because it baffles me how people think they have a right to do things to other people such as killing, raping, causing emotional or psychical harm ect. It’s just ridiculous, what kind home were the boys that did this raised in? Houston has been a part of a lot of things but I never thought promoting drugging a young girl and raping her would be one of them.

Despite of all the ugliness that has been going viral regarding this issue there has been many people stepping up to support Jada, including her parents who are her rock during this time. I also searched online and many of her friends as well as complete strangers are speaking up loudly against this foolishness, I even found a song done by an artist named King Fredrick (click his name to hear the song). Watching the interview that Jada did with KHOU she looks like a brave girl who is ready and willing to be the voice for this cause. I always like to see the light at the end of the tunnel and here the light seems dim but I have a good feeling Jada will bounce back and become stronger.  There is still an investigation going on but I hope justice will prevail. Spread the word that having a woman by force is not the new thing, cool, funny, or manly!

 

 

No Parent should have to go through this with their child

No Parent should have to go through this with their child

 

We are here for you Jada!

#JusticeforJada

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Please share and hashtag #justiceforjada

Please share and hashtag #justiceforjada

“Oh I’m Celibate”

Entertainment, Relationship

When women get together and talk we can be worse than men sometimes. Naturally we are detailed in many aspects of life so why wouldn’t we be when it comes to talking about sex? When we (women) are in the midst of telling some juicy sex gist there is always one chick that is like “Hmm I wouldn’t know about that I don’t have sex”. Can we say Debbie downer?!  Why do we need to know you are celibate? Celibate lets me know you have had sex so if someone is talking about d*** you know exactly what it is and have dealt with it, probably on several occasions. Why act brand new, getting the d is like riding a bike, you never forget!

 

NO SEX

Do not get me wrong if there are people out there who have decided to go that route, great for you!!! I am symbolically clapping for you. I just do not feel like I need to know. There are men who choose this path but they are not loud about it. They tell the woman they are dating as they should, but they aren’t around announcing it to the world. WOMEN lawd lawd lawd want to tell everyone! “Hey look at me, I don’t have sex” “ A penis no, no, no I have seen one in 3 years” “whoa girl I haven’t had sex in so long, but that guy right there; IF I was having sex girl he could get it”. It’s too much, it really is. How many people do you hear walking around talking about “Hey look at me I’m f******” “Just in case you all were wondering I AM SEXUALLY ACTIVE” “I can hardly wait to my next piece of D”. I don’t know about you but I have never heard a woman say this, but yet the Celibatians (I just gave them that name lol not an actual term) feel like they need to let everyone know. I guess maybe they feel like it is winning them some brownie points somewhere.

When I hear a Celibatian speak, celebrating how they aren’t getting any to people who really don’t care (its true we don’t) I always think, there is a reason why this woman is celibate and telling everyone! Some women just want to wait until they are married after they have “slipped” and had sex with someone who maybe didn’t appreciate them.  Scenario two they were getting down with everyone and decided hey I am on the borderline of being a hoe let me cease and desist giving up the booty for a while.  When I hear women say that she doesn’t have sex I always think the latter. I could be wrong but that’s what pops into my head. Usually when people do something extreme there is a reason for it.

I think being celibate is not easy and everyone that is participating in that currently my hats off to you but just keep it to yourself until you meet the person you want to be with and tell them because in all actuality that is the only person that needs to know what you are doing and have done with your vagina.

 

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